From the introduction of this writeup, we see how student of most Nigeria campus have welcome sexual relationship, rather to remain focus on attainment of educational pursuit and shun this obnoxious act on campus.
In this part, we are going to look more on the ladies, because it pain me that more of this consequence and aftermath is on the ladies. Ladies!!! Open your eyes Can’t you see you’re being foolish? You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a coward who cannot stand before your father. And when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you can’t master the punishment of your conscience. Don’t you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don’t you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent?I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied I don’t sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him’. What impunity That’s classified harlotry. And don’t you know that sleeping with a man without your father’s blessings is bringing a curse to your future? What happened to your cultural values? Somewhere in your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get married.
And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year on campus!The other gifts for the rest of her life are her care and character not her curves and complexion! Real men know this; so, get it screwed in!Those treacherous boys would call you ‘sexy’ and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are indeed a mistake. Am not saying that you should be rude or never live a ‘social life’ but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books. You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly.
So, why make yourself so cheap?I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that’s why am sounding stern. I know about two girls now that have been living with their boyfriend since year one and as it is now they can’t even even count many abortions they had for that same boy at school.
Bae it’s now like a normal thing to them, the last one she did almost took her life and that made her bleed for 4months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.. As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive use of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy.